As we roll on into the 89th and hopefully final month of 2020 I have been thinking and talking about belonging, with my clients, ex colleagues and my friends. Belonging, according to Karyn Hall in Psychology Today: "means acceptance as a member or part. Such a simple word for huge concept. A sense of belonging is a human need, just like the need for food and shelter. Feeling that you belong is most important in seeing value in life and in coping with intensely painful emotio